Speaking at the New York Hostage Negotiators Conference – 2025
In May, I had the privilege of speaking at the annual New York Hostage Negotiators Conference, a premier gathering of crisis negotiation professionals from across the globe. Hosted in the heart of New York State, this year’s conference brought together law enforcement negotiators, mental health professionals, tactical officers, and federal agents to share insights, case studies, and hard-earned lessons from the field. The opportunity to present among such a distinguished group was both humbling and energizing.
My own presentation centered on a high-stakes domestic hostage situation that unfolded after a suspect embarked on a violent overnight crime spree. The incident culminated in the suspect taking a mother hostage inside her own home. The case presented layers of complexity—from managing media presence to maintaining communication with an emotionally volatile individual who had already committed multiple crimes that night. I focused on the negotiation strategies we used to maintain contact, lower the emotional temperature, and ultimately resolve the situation safely for all involved.
The lineup of speakers at the conference was nothing short of exceptional. Among the most memorable was Inspector Colin Harper of Police Scotland, who captivated the room with a riveting presentation on an international kidnap-for-ransom case. His talk offered rare insights into the challenges of operating across borders, navigating language and cultural barriers, and coordinating with multiple international agencies to recover a hostage. His ability to break down the complexities of such a case gave attendees a window into the intricate world of international negotiation operations.
Another highlight was FBI Special Agent Brenda McAdoo, who delivered a gripping case study involving a domestic kidnapping. Her account detailed the coordination between local and federal law enforcement, behavioral analysis, and the psychological techniques used to keep the suspect engaged. Her deep experience and practical takeaways left a lasting impression on many in attendance.
Also presenting was JD Byas of Dallas SWAT, who brought a tactical negotiator’s perspective to the conference. His engaging and dynamic style, combined with frontline stories from some of Texas’ most high-risk standoff situations, made his session one of the most talked-about of the event. His integration of tactical considerations with negotiation strategy underscored the importance of seamless team coordination in crisis resolution.
The conference wasn’t just about presentations—it was about connecting with a community of professionals who share a passion for preserving life, managing chaos, and continuously improving our craft. The exchange of knowledge in both formal sessions and informal conversations helped recharge and refocus the work we all do in our respective jurisdictions.
Beyond the conference, the trip offered opportunities to explore some of the cultural and historical landmarks of the region. A visit to the majestic Niagara Falls served as a powerful reminder of nature’s force and beauty. I also enjoyed strolling through the Movieland Wax Museum and Louis Tussaud’s Waxworks, where lifelike figures of film legends and cultural icons brought a touch of fun to the trip.
On the way back, I took time to explore Rochester, New York, a city rich in both history and innovation. Highlights included the Strong National Museum of Play, a delightful and interactive experience that brings childhood memories to life. At the George Eastman Museum, I learned about the legacy of the man who revolutionized photography, while a visit to Susan B. Anthony’s grave reminded me of the enduring power of courage and conviction.
All in all, the New York Hostage Negotiators Conference was more than a professional event—it was an unforgettable experience that combined learning, networking, and inspiration. I returned home with new insights, fresh strategies, and a deepened sense of purpose in the work we do to resolve conflict and save lives.